Tata Harper Skincare

Tata Harper Natural Skincare Line | My Thoughts

I am a huge skincare junkie, in case you didn't already know. For me it is a self care ritual, that makes me feel good about myself. If nothing else goes right in my day, I know that I start and end my day taking care of myself. I admit it is a pretty pricey addiction, but hey, at least it's good for me? While I love a good drugstore find, there are certain products I believe are really worth…

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When The Honeymoon Phase Is Over AF

Remember when you used to look at each other with hearts in your eyes? Couldn’t keep your hands off each other? It’s the best feeling in the world. Sh**, you actually really love him, and the best part... he loves you back. You’re literally high on life. Then, even though you were sure it would never happen, comfort sets in, routine sets in, now you live together! He leaves his freakin’ shoes in the middle of the kitchen floor. You…

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The Number One Thing I Use To Make Decisions

“Trust your intuition,” “trust your gut,” we get it! We’ve seen that quote a million times on Pinterest and if you click the hashtag #quoteoftheday I’m sure you’ll find it posted a million more times. If you don’t know this already, I LOOOVE a good inspirational quote. But, it irks me when a really important or profound statement gets overused to the point where we are almost desensitized to it; “Trust your intuition,” is one of those quotes for me.…

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My Advice On How To Get Good Advice

How many times have you consulted your single friend on relationship or dating advice? How many times have you consulted your equally lost mid twenties friends on how to figure out your life? My advice here is, be careful whom you take advice from, including mine. Which is a pretty counter productive statement for me to use, but I genuinely believe this. I do my best to only offer advice when I truly believe that I feel qualified to offer…

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How I Overcame Social Anxiety

You might be surprised to know that I grew up with some serious social anxiety. Wait, what? The bubbly, charismatic, center of attention deals with social anxiety? No, way. Didn’t your mom ever teach you not to judge a book by its cover? I’ve had conversations about having social anxiety with people who also deal with it, and the truth is everyone just copes with it differently. Some retract and distance themselves; I over compensated by forcing myself to be…

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I Don’t Know Where To Start

So, there is something you really want to do, you can’t seem to get yourself to do it because you don’t know where to start? I get it, starting something new can be terrifying and a bit overwhelming. I honestly didn’t know where to start with this blog post, I kinda just started writing knowing that something would come out of me onto the page. That’s pretty much how I’ve done everything that I do, the ole “say yes and…

There Is Nothing Wrong With You

"There is nothing wrong with you" - is what I wish someone would have said to me when I was young and struggling with my mental health/anxiety.   “ Mental health includes our emotional, psychological, and social well-being. It affects how we think, feel, and act. It also helps determine how we handle stress, relate to others, and make choices. “ -mentalhealth.gov I found this quote while writing a blog about combating stress for one of my clients, and I thought…

To Whom It May Concern

To Whom It May Concern

To Whom It May Concern, This is a letter to me, but also to you, because if you’re reading it then lets just assume you need to hear it too. Everything is going to work out the way it is supposed to, what is for you will never miss you. It will always find it’s way to you. It may be right in front of your nose. The thing you want is already there, it already exists out there, just…

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